Current:Home > NewsA US veteran died at a nursing home, abandoned. Hundreds of strangers came to say goodbye -Elevate Profit Vision
A US veteran died at a nursing home, abandoned. Hundreds of strangers came to say goodbye
View
Date:2025-04-13 20:39:18
AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) — Former U.S. Marine Gerry Brooks died alone at a nursing home in Maine, abandoned and all but forgotten. Then the funeral home posted a notice asking if anyone would serve as a pallbearer or simply attend his burial.
Within minutes, it was turning away volunteers to carry his casket.
A bagpiper came forward to play at the service. A pilot offered to perform a flyover. Military groups across the state pledged a proper sendoff.
Hundreds of people who knew nothing about the 86-year-old beyond his name showed up on a sweltering afternoon and gave Brooks a final salute with full military honors Thursday at the Maine Veterans’ Memorial Cemetery in Augusta.
Patriot Guard Riders on motorcycles escorted his hearse on the 40-mile route from the funeral home in Belfast, Maine, to the cemetery. Members of the Veterans of Foreign Wars paid tribute with a 21-gun salute. Volunteers held American flags alongside the casket while a crane hoisted a huge flag above the cemetery entrance.
“It’s an honor for us to be able to do this,” said Jim Roberts, commander of the VFW post in Belfast. “There’s so much negativity in the world. This is something people can feel good about and rally around. It’s just absolutely wonderful.”
He said the VFW is called a couple times a year about a deceased veteran with no family or with one that isn’t willing to handle the funeral arrangements. But “we will always be there.” Like other veterans helping out Thursday, he hadn’t known Brooks.
So many groups volunteered to take part in paying tribute that there wasn’t enough space to fit them into the 20-minute burial service, said Katie Riposta, the funeral director who put out the call for help last week.
“It renews your faith in humanity,” she said.
More than 8 million of the U.S. veterans living are 65 or older, almost half the veteran population. They are overwhelmingly men. That’s according to a U.S. Census Bureau report last year. As this generation dies, it said, their collective memory of wartime experiences “will pass into history.”
Much about Brooks’ life is unknown.
He was widowed and had lived in Augusta before he died on May 18, less than a week after entering a nursing home, Riposta said. A cause of death was not released.
The funeral home and authorities were able to reach his next of kin, but no one was willing to come forward or take responsibility for his body, she said.
“It sounds like he was a good person, but I know nothing about his life,” Riposta said, noting that after Brooks’ death, a woman contacted the funeral home to say he had once taken her in when she had no other place to go, with no details.
“It doesn’t matter if he served one day or made the military his career,” she said. “He still deserves to be respected and not alone.”
The memorial book posted online by Direct Cremation of Maine, which helped to arrange the burial, offered no clues. An hour before his funeral, three people had signed it. It seemed they hadn’t met him, either.
“Sir,” one began, and ended with “Semper Fi.”
The two others, a couple, thanked Brooks for his service. “We all deserve the love kindness and respect when we are called home. I hope that you lived a full beautiful life of Love, Kindness, Dreams and Hope,” they wrote.
They added: “Thank you to all those who will make this gentleman’s service a proper, well deserved good bye.”
Linda Laweryson, who served in the Marines, said this will be the second funeral in little over a year that she has attended for a veteran who died alone. Everyone deserves to die with dignity and be buried with dignity, she said.
Lawyerson said she planned to read a poem during the graveside service written by a combat Marine who reflects on the spot where Marines graduate from boot camp.
“I walked the old parade ground, but I was not alone,” the poem reads. “I walked the old parade ground and knew that I was home.”
___
Seewer reported from Toledo, Ohio.
veryGood! (389)
Related
- $73.5M beach replenishment project starts in January at Jersey Shore
- Biden has $52 billion for semiconductors. Today, work begins to spend that windfall
- Amid the hype, they bought crypto near its peak. Now, they cope with painful losses
- Outlast Star Reveals Where They Stand With Their Former Teammates After That Crushing Finale
- Pressure on a veteran and senator shows what’s next for those who oppose Trump
- Succession’s Sarah Snook Is Pregnant, Expecting First Baby With Husband Dave Lawson
- King Charles III has a rainy coronation day – just like his mother's. Here are other similarities and differences between the ceremonies.
- Vanderpump Rules Reveals First Footage of Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix's Post-Affair Fight
- Don't let hackers fool you with a 'scam
- Snapchat's new parental controls try to mimic real-life parenting, minus the hovering
Ranking
- New Zealand official reverses visa refusal for US conservative influencer Candace Owens
- The MixtapE! Presents Taylor Swift, Delilah Belle Hamlin, Matchbox Twenty and More New Music Musts
- Data privacy concerns make the post-Roe era uncharted territory
- Does your rewards card know if you're pregnant? Privacy experts sound the alarm
- What do we know about the mysterious drones reported flying over New Jersey?
- U.S. lets tech firms boost internet access in Iran following a crackdown on protesters
- Period tracker app Flo developing 'anonymous mode' to quell post-Roe privacy concerns
- The Bold Type's Katie Stevens Gives Birth, Welcomes First Baby With Husband Paul DiGiovanni
Recommendation
North Carolina justices rule for restaurants in COVID
Fire Up the Grill, a Good Burger Sequel With Kenan Thompson and Kel Mitchell Is Actually Happening
How Title 42's expiration reshapes immigration policy at the U.S.-Mexico border
Tyga Buys Massive $80,000 Gift for Avril Lavigne Amid Budding Romance
Jamie Foxx gets stitches after a glass is thrown at him during dinner in Beverly Hills
Will BeReal just make us BeFake? Plus, A Guidebook To Smell
Judge gives Elon Musk and Twitter until the end of the month to close their deal
Bruce Willis' Wife Emma Heming Feeling Grief and Sadness on Actor's Birthday Amid His Health Battle